tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8507100569679957287.post3882062606724475412..comments2011-10-23T23:40:57.504-05:00Comments on Transforming Word: TrustAshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09244261604473250424noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8507100569679957287.post-17969888635579338392008-07-05T10:27:00.000-05:002008-07-05T10:27:00.000-05:00Thank you, VV. That is good advice - thank you fo...Thank you, VV. That is good advice - thank you for taking the time to write it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8507100569679957287.post-30916317902475952332008-07-05T10:08:00.000-05:002008-07-05T10:08:00.000-05:00I've been where she is. I've been where you are. ...I've been where she is. I've been where you are. Nothing tests a relationship like worry. All I can give you for advise, and I think it's good advice, is to take those confessions, those understandings, and apply them. If you know she's scared, then tell her you understand and offer her some nurturing. If you know she is attacking from a rampart based on fear, then acknowledge and it will dissolve and the two of you can return to being the team you both want to be. <BR/><BR/>At the same time, you can comfort yourself, acknowledge your own fears, and soothe them.<BR/><BR/>Love, real love, gives. You've got nothing to lose (except pride) by extending outward, and everything to lose by staying behind your defenses.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com